This whole idea started when I was doing my graduation. Whenever I see someone pregnant, the first thought used to come to my mind was WHY. If they need kids, there are so many of them standing out and looking for a kind heart to take them, who want a better home than the streets, who need a mother to take care of them, a father to hold their hands and teach them whats right and wrong. This way atleast the population wont grow much. But everyone needs to grow their family and want to have their own decendants. Then I decided I will adopt a child once I have my own life.
When I got married and started thinking about having kids, i many times tried to talk to my husband but didnt know how to convince him. Its just not him. I had to convince all my family. Then I felt may be if i have kids then they will be happy and i can plan of adopting the second baby. But now he says, as we have our own kid there might be differences in the future. Even though we wont feel that, but if we think atleast once that they are not our own then the whole concept of adoption will be wasted. so now my dream of adopting a kid is not going to happen. May be I am still not living by myself yet. That day when i was studying i wanted to do it later because I have my parents who wont be accepting it so i thought i will be planning once i am of my own. I was unable to say strong to my parents (jut two people) at that time, and now, how can i say and convince a bigger family (husband, in laws, father, sister.....)
Like me, in this society there are many others who have plans for their future. My suggestion would be, if you want to achieve some thing then you should have the courage to do it.
When I got married and started thinking about having kids, i many times tried to talk to my husband but didnt know how to convince him. Its just not him. I had to convince all my family. Then I felt may be if i have kids then they will be happy and i can plan of adopting the second baby. But now he says, as we have our own kid there might be differences in the future. Even though we wont feel that, but if we think atleast once that they are not our own then the whole concept of adoption will be wasted. so now my dream of adopting a kid is not going to happen. May be I am still not living by myself yet. That day when i was studying i wanted to do it later because I have my parents who wont be accepting it so i thought i will be planning once i am of my own. I was unable to say strong to my parents (jut two people) at that time, and now, how can i say and convince a bigger family (husband, in laws, father, sister.....)
Like me, in this society there are many others who have plans for their future. My suggestion would be, if you want to achieve some thing then you should have the courage to do it.
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